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Therapists and mental health professionals are busier than ever, balancing client care, professional growth, and their own well-being. Podcasts have become one of the most accessible ways to stay informed, learn new modalities, and hear from voices that inspire. Whether you’re on your morning commute or winding down after sessions, the right podcast can deliver […]

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is often misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or entirely overlooked—especially in clinical settings that rely heavily on surface-level behavioral presentations. In this episode of The Self Careapist Podcast, psychologist Dr. Maylin Griffiths unpacks what PDA really looks like and how clinicians can get curious when the puzzle pieces don’t fit. Whether you’re working in […]

We’ve all heard someone say, “I’m so OCD” because they like a clean desk or color-coded closet. But as Dr. Liz McIngvale explains in this episode, that phrase is not only inaccurate, it’s harmful and dismissive. OCD isn’t about being neat. It’s a debilitating condition that demands specialized care. And the gold standard for that […]

What does it really take to help couples create lasting connection? In this episode, Dr. Marni Feuerman joins me to explore strengthening emotional bonds in couples therapy and highlighting her extensive training in both Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method. Together, we examine how attachment, emotion, and experiential work shape real, enduring relationship […]

Psychosis is often described in clinical terms—hallucinations, delusions, disconnection. But what if we started the conversation with something radically different: a hopeful treatment for psychosis grounded in personal goals, meaningful relationships, and possibility? In this episode, Dr. Aaron Brinen shares how clinicians can support clients living with psychosis not by narrowing the focus to symptoms, […]

In this episode of The Self Careapist Therapist Podcast, I (Lorain Moorehead, LCSW) speak with trauma specialist Melissa Lapides, LMFT about complex trauma healing through mind-body approaches, exploring how early attachment wounds shape our relationships and the path to recovery. What Is Trauma Therapy? Understanding Complex Trauma Complex trauma healing through mind-body approaches is increasingly […]

What does it mean to build a life worth living, especially when the world wasn’t built with you in mind? Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers an affirming, flexible framework that can be life-changing for LGBTQIA+ folks navigating chronic stress, discrimination, and emotional overwhelm. In this episode, I sat down with Dr. Kiki Fehling, a DBT […]

TraumaPlay Therapy Model with Paris Goodyear Brown In this conversation, I sat down with Paris Goodyear Brown, founder of the TraumaPlay® Institute, author, and internationally recognized trauma therapist to explore the principles behind the TraumaPlay therapy model. Designed to serve children and families impacted by trauma, TraumaPlay® is an integrative approach that invites therapists to […]

As trauma therapists, and mental health providers, we are constantly trying to understand why certain clients respond well to treatment while others struggle to access cognitive skills, emotional awareness, or the ability to stay present. In this episode of The Self Careapist Therapist Podcast, I talked with Michelle Maikoetter, LPC, Director of Special Projects for […]